You’re Not Too Sensitive

You’re Not Too Sensitive

You’re Not Too Sensitive — You’re Wired for Deep Awareness

“You’re just too sensitive.”

Heard that before?

For many neurodiverse people—and anyone who feels deeply—this phrase lands like a judgment. It’s often said with frustration, dismissal, or even pity. 

But here’s the truth:

You’re not too sensitive.
You’re precisely sensitive enough.

Your nervous system isn’t faulty. It’s finely tuned. 

You’re wired to notice details, energy shifts, subtle sounds, tiny injustices, unexpected beauty. 

Where others might rush by, you pause. You feel. You see. And that is a profound gift.

🌿 Sensitivity ≠ Weakness

Let’s clear this up: being sensitive doesn’t mean being fragile. It means being deeply aware.

You might:

  • Sense tension in a room before anyone says a word

  • Feel overwhelmed by bright lights, strong smells, or background noise

  • Cry during music, movies, or at the sight of something beautiful

  • Need time alone to reset after socialising

  • Notice patterns, inconsistencies, or small acts of kindness that others miss

None of this means you’re broken. It means you’re in tune. In a world that rewards speed and surface-level interaction, your deep awareness is a quiet kind of power.

🌀 The Link Between Sensitivity and Neurodiversity

Many neurodiverse people—especially those with autism, ADHD, or traits linked to sensory processing—experience heightened sensitivity. 

This can show up physically (like noticing every flicker of fluorescent lighting) or emotionally (like feeling the mood of a friend before they even speak).

We’ve been taught to hide this. To mask. To “toughen up.”

But what if the world needs more feeling, not less?

🔍 What Your Sensitivity Tells You

Think of it like this: your sensitivity is feedback. It’s information. It tells you when something is off, when a space feels safe, when someone needs support. It also tells you what brings you joy, peace, comfort, and connection.

Instead of ignoring it, you can learn to listen. To trust it.

And to build a life that honours it.

💖 You Deserve Environments That Feel Kind

You don’t need to be less sensitive.

You need environments that are more aligned with how you function best.

That might mean:

  • Choosing quieter cafés

  • Wearing soft clothes in calming colours

  • Surrounding yourself with people who respect your pacing

  • Saying no to things that leave you overstimulated or emotionally drained

These choices aren’t indulgent—they’re necessary. For your nervous system, your creativity, your wellbeing.

🌸 You’re Allowed to Be Fully You

You were never meant to fit into a world that silences sensitivity.

You were meant to help shape a world that honours it.

So the next time someone says you’re too sensitive, you might pause… and smile.

Because now you know:

  • You’re not too sensitive.
  • You’re deeply aware.
  • And that’s your strength.

🎤 Share Your Thoughts

What will you say next time someone says you’re “too sensitive”? Share in the comments below – let’s inspire each other!

And if you feel inspired, come and start chatting in our Different… And Loving It! community.

Soothing Sounds for Neurodiversity

Soothing Sounds for Neurodiversity

Immersing in Soothing Sounds for Neurodiversity

I wanted to create a quiet place to land so I’m creating Soothing Sounds for Neurodiversity.

There’s something healing about sound when it’s offered with care.

  • The shimmer of a chime
  • The low hum of a singing bowl
  • The gentle pulse of space between tones

It’s not just sound—it’s feeling.

My Soothing Sounds video series is a quiet offering for anyone who needs somewhere soft to land. 

If the world often feels too fast, too loud, too full… these sessions are a chance to slow down, exhale, and return to your own rhythm.

Created especially for neurodiverse folks and sensitive systems, each video is a sensory-friendly sound experience. There’s no bright lights, no jarring visuals, and no talking (apart from a brief introduction and closing)—just gentle soundscapes designed to calm and comfort.

What You’ll Find

🤫 Sounds to soothe and regulate

🪷 Invitations to rest, release, or simply be

🔁 Sessions you can return to again and again

You might feel-

The vibrations in your chest.

Or a twitch in your body (that’s energy being released!).

Perhaps less heavy.

Or sense your breath softening without trying.

Maybe you feel a little more you by the end.


These aren’t performance pieces or polished soundtracks. 

They’re real, present-moment offerings recorded with care—just as I am, just as you are.

Watch on YouTube

New Soothing Sounds sessions are released every second week on my YouTube channel 🎧 @Different-andLovingIt

If you find one that feels especially good, I hope you’ll save it, revisit it, or even send it to someone who might need a little calm too.

There’s something beautiful about choosing what soothes you—and I hope these sessions can be part of that for you.

I’d also love to hear from you—what would you like to hear or experience in this series? Please share in the comments below, or let me know here.

Late-Identified Neurodiversity – Rediscovering Myself

Late-Identified Neurodiversity – Rediscovering Myself

Late-Identified Neurodiversity = Internal University

Figuring out that I’m neurodiverse in my mid-50s certainly qualifies as late-identified neurodiversity!

I’ve always known — and embraced — that I’m different. But it’s only recently that I’ve begun to understand the full scope of my neurodiversity. I may be neurodiverse in multiple ways.

I’ve always known I was an introvert, and that felt like part of my neurodiversity. But discovering that I’m also autistic?

That part is new.

Looking Back Through a Neurodiverse Lens

With the insight I’m gaining now, I can see autism running through my life like a thread — sometimes fine and golden, sometimes tangled.

As a child, I loved solitude. I’d read science books and do experiments, learn to knit and crochet from crafting guides, and explore the vivid, layered world inside me.

When I did venture out, I saw things that weren’t right. Even at 7 or 8, I was campaigning to protect animals and the environment — creating petitions, going door to door to collect signatures, and sending them to the government.

I also had what my parents called “tantrums” — which meant being sent to my room (blessed solitude!). Now I understand these were likely meltdowns. The world overwhelmed me, and there was little awareness of autism back then.

Interestingly, my dad self-diagnosed as “mildly autistic.” It never quite landed with me — but he made me feel normal in a way no one else did.

Masking… and the Cost

Masking is the art of hiding your neurodiverse traits to fit into the neurotypical world.

Given I’ve gotten this far in life with only about four people recognising I might be neurodiverse – I’m pretty good at it! 

My mission now is to gently unpick the mask — to understand when and how I mask, and most importantly, the toll it takes on my energy.

But because masking has become so automatic, it’s difficult to spot.

One video on YouTube helped illuminate this for me — I’ll share it below. I’ve watched it several times, laughing out loud at how deeply I relate.

(Especially the “watching the movie” scene… oh my stars — that is so me. It’s probably why I adore The Detectorists.)

Watch it here:

What’s Beneath the Mask?

I’m still discovering that part.

I’ve taken a short pause from life — a reset — to tune into my own rhythms. I’m learning what I truly need, and what my limits are.

Here’s what I’ve uncovered so far:

🕊️ Making time for myself early in the day
🐶 More puppy time (play and cuddles!)
🌪️ Limiting time in environments that are intense or draining
🗓️ Structuring my days to reflect my needs — which are still evolving
🚫 Saying firm no’s to what feels soul-sapping
🌿 Spending more time in nature — restoring myself, and watching satin bowerbirds build their bowers
🍲 Eating in ways that support my body
💫 Welcoming in more of what I love

This journey of late-identified neurodiversity is not about labelling. It’s about liberation. About finally seeing myself with clarity, compassion, and care.

And maybe, just maybe, letting that mask fall away — one kind choice at a time.

Have you ever experienced a moment of self-discovery that changed the way you see your past?

I’d love to hear what helped you make sense of your difference — whether recently, or long ago.

Please feel welcome to share in the comments, or just sit with the question gently and see what it stirs.

How to Stop Feeling Broken

How to Stop Feeling Broken

How to Stop Feeling Broken – You’re Just Different

Have you ever had that sinking feeling that you’re not quite right? That somehow, you missed a memo on how to “human” correctly? 

Maybe you’ve been told you’re too sensitive, too intense, too quiet, too loud, too much—or not enough. 

That feeling of not fitting in can be overwhelming. It can convince you that you’re somehow broken.

But here’s the truth: You are not broken. You’re just different.

And different is NOT a flaw.

What Feeling Broken Really Means

That “feeling broken” sensation often comes from years of internalising messages that something about you needs fixing. 

For many neurodiverse people, that message starts early: at school, in social groups, in work environments built for a different kind of brain.

Feeling broken isn’t really about who you are. It’s about how you’ve been made to feel.

When the world isn’t designed with your way of thinking, feeling, or sensing in mind, it can wear you down. 

But your differences – your sensitivities, your focus, your perspective – aren’t errors. They’re signals of a mind that works uniquely.

Reframing “Broken” as “Brilliant”

Let’s flip the narrative. 

What if those things that make you feel broken are actually signs of brilliance?

🌱 Struggle in noisy environments? That might mean you have finely tuned sensory awareness.
💡 Need time alone to recharge? You may process deeply and feel more than others.
✨ Communicate differently? That’s not a flaw—it’s another form of fluency.

The world needs all kinds of thinkers, feelers, and beings. Your uniqueness might just be the perspective someone else is longing to hear.

How to Start Healing That Feeling

If you’re stuck in the cycle of feeling broken, here are a few gentle steps to help shift that story:

  1. Notice the narrative
    Pay attention to the inner voice that says, “I’m too much” or “I don’t belong.”
    Whose voice is that? Often, it’s not yours.
  2. Seek spaces that celebrate difference
    When you find places—online or in real life—where people get you, it’s like a deep exhale. Community matters.
  3. Speak kindly to yourself
    Start small: “I am doing my best.” “There’s nothing wrong with me.”
    Let those words begin to soften the edges.
  4. Recognise your strengths
    Make a list of what you do well—not just achievements, but traits: creativity, compassion, pattern recognition, perseverance.
    Start to celebrate you.
  5. Get support
    Whether it’s a coach, therapist, mentor or trusted friend –
    Being seen and heard by someone who understands can be powerful.

You Are Not Broken—You Are Becoming

If no one has told you lately: there is nothing wrong with you.

Yes, the world can be confusing, harsh, and overwhelming. But you? You are still whole.

You’re allowed to feel tired. You’re allowed to feel lost. And you’re allowed to rest. 

But please don’t mistake being different for being broken.

Because in your difference lies your depth, your strength, and your quiet brilliance.

 

Share your thoughts in the comments. I’d love to hear your reactions, thoughts and feelings.

What Does Coaching Impact Really Feel Like?

What Does Coaching Impact Really Feel Like?

The Lasting Impact of Coaching: How Radiance Coaching Creates Real Change

What Does Coaching Impact Really Feel Like?

Imagine standing at the edge of a dense forest, unsure of the path ahead. The trees whisper possibilities, but the way forward feels tangled, overwhelming. 

Coaching is like a lantern lighting the way – not forcing a route, but revealing choices, opening space, making the next step clear.

The impact of coaching isn’t just a single moment of insight. 

It’s the feeling of breathing easier, of moving through life with a sense of direction. 

It’s the confidence to trust yourself, the freedom to unmask, the deep exhale of realising you no longer have to fit into someone else’s mould.

The Power of Radiance Coaching for Neurodiverse People

Radiance Coaching is a sanctuary for those who experience the world intensely. 

If you process life deeply, feel things profoundly, or navigate a brain that doesn’t fit the so-called ‘norm,’ this is for you. 

Radiance Coaching isn’t about fixing – it’s about aligning with who you already are and uncovering what makes you thrive.

The impact of Radiance Coaching shows up in:

🌿 Moments of clarity that feel like fresh air – the sudden realisation that you do know what you need, and always have.

🎶 Expressing yourself in ways that finally feel right – no more struggling to fit into uncomfortable conversations or expectations.

🔥 Energy shifts that transform daily life – recognising what drains you, what fuels you, and how to balance both.

🌊 Finding your natural rhythm – honouring how you move through the world, instead of forcing yourself into someone else’s pace.

🌟 Success on your terms – defining progress by how you feel, not by arbitrary checklists or comparisons.

How Do You Know Coaching is Working?

The effects of Radiance Coaching don’t come with a scorecard – they show up in the little things, the ripples that turn into waves:

  • Noticing more ease in your days – decisions feel smoother, self-doubt loosens its grip, your energy flows where it’s needed.
  • Recognising and celebrating small wins – setting boundaries without guilt, speaking up with confidence, feeling seen in your own story.
  • Feeling at home in yourself – not needing to shrink, mask, or explain away your natural ways of being.

The Ripple Effect of Coaching

Transformation isn’t just personal – it extends outward. 

When you shift, so do your relationships, your environment, your way of engaging with the world. 

You move with more presence, more authenticity, creating spaces where others can do the same.

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Ready to Experience the Shift?

If you’re ready to move from stuck to flowing, Radiance Coaching is here to support you. 

I’ve got a couple of places opening up – let’s chat about how coaching can help you step into your fullest self.

Learn more and book your sessions here.

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